Category: experiences

Some people are beautiful before you actually get to know them, while others become more beautiful after you get to know them

I feel many youths often mistake crushes and infatuation with love. It’s easy to see how the two are mistaken for love because the feelings are so intense, but there is a difference. A big difference in fact. Infatuation is defined as an intense but short lived passion or admiration for someone or something. Love is patient, love is understanding, and love is forgiving. Love desires a deep connection, while infatuation craves physical interactions.If you have a strong crush on someone – It is Infatuation. But , It is interesting to note that, Most of the time , Infatuation is always the pre-stage of love and It is not love.

https://talktosteev.wordpress.com/2020/04/21/do-i-have-a-crush-or-love

Lonely

Nikki's avatarSexual Innuendo

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Have you ever felt so lonely, you just didn’t even know if you could make it out of bed? That even masturbation lost its appeal? That you just wanted to curl up in a ball and cease to exist? I sure have.  Loneliness has been a continuous theme throughout my life. Even as a child, I felt isolated a lot of the time. It has always ebbed and flowed though, and I think it always will. It can be a companion at times, that even if you have no one, you always have your own misery and self-pity. It is a slippery slope to further mental health downfalls, which lets depression, harm and extreme doubt sneak into your life. I have actively been trying to avoid negativity in my life, and don’t want to fall into those dark patterns. How can one stay positive amongst all the negative though?

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The Project

adventures, blog, how to be single, life of a single girl, project, single

yencantiga's avatarCheeky Chatters

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The first question that comes to mind is why the hell did I start this project? The only answer on top of my head is this:

One night in June, I was texting with a friend when I had an epiphany. “I should start a blog about my single life! It’s the first time in 8 years that I have been truly single so I wanted to document the experience.

My friend said back then, “What if you become not single in the next few months?” I struggled with the answer. Yeah, what if I found a very nice man during the course of the next few months? So I shelved the project and went about my merry way.

True enough, I found a decent guy who became my boyfriend for a few months. Good thing I didn’t start the blog back then, huh? However, after a few blissful months…

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Talking about love at 19

cheating, life, love, relationships, single, travel

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I’ve never experienced being in love because I don’t want to lose myself. And that’s a statement. I am young, I have fire in me, I want to achieve things and the way I’m saying it might seem self centred or selfish but the truth is I’m okay with being alone, I’m at peace.

There is so much pressure for people to be in relationships, to be with someone, and some people, because of that, can’t for the life of them be alone. They are lost and they do not who they are because they have always been with someone else.

We should learn to be alone with ourselves before we get into a relationship. Being alone is okay -don’t shame people for being alone and don’t feel bad for being single. Enjoy life the way you want – whether that’s doing what excites you, learning new things, being friends…

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