I have a good relationship with each one of my exes

Keywords: relationship

I still don’t get what the fuss about exes is. It seems that the idea of them being familiar is what gets people. Some people say they never have feelings for any ex. Once it’s done, it’s done. I am one of those people. I spent my day with a great guy by all standards and he still couldn’t elicit an emotional or sexual response from me. But hey, there really isn’t anything wrong in getting back with an ex if your heart can handle it. All you have to do is treat the relationship as a new one and let go of the past.

https://candidvibez.wordpress.com/2021/01/07/ex-or-next

Our feelings are totally different than the stories we form about them

Keywords: self-reflection saturdays

We don’t have a lot of control over feelings and when and how they come up. What we do have control over is what we tell ourselves about those feelings and how we respond to them with our actions.

https://kristinachapin.wordpress.com/2020/02/15/imaginary-friends

Let It Go

Breakup, Emotional-Health, LettingGo, Love, Personal, Relationships

One major self-love strategy is the ability to identify and remove toxic relationships from our lives in order to protect our peace.

No, the title of this is not a reference to the Disney Channel movie, Frozen. However, just like in the movie when Princess Anna discovered that although Prince Hans seemed like a good guy, he was actually very toxic for her, she had to let him go. (By force since he tried to kill her but that’s beside the point.)

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Even though self-love sounds like it only has to do with us that is not completely the case. The ways in which we love and see ourselves are very much affected by those we surround ourselves with and those we connect ourselves to. When consistently interacting with people who bring negativity into our lives, it tends to influence the way we see ourselves and ultimately has the…

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