Not trying to control others to be what I want and not letting others try to be what I want so I love them

Keywords: Relating and Sexuality, Authenticity, Discomfort, Inner Guidance, Intuition, Mental Health

And this includes, most importantly includes SELF HONESTY. To know when I don’t resonate abd stop having sex with that person out of neediness.

What is expected of us on a date?

advice , happy , health , help , love

A Brighter Cloud

So i’ve been tindering tonight, just chatting to some boyos. Then i got to thinking, thinking about the dates ive been on in the past.

So some boys can be lovely at the end of the night, nice goodnight kiss and walks me to the door.. but i have had other experiences where the boy expects to come in the house, or wants you to come back to his..

now this could be perfectly innocent, entering someones house youve never been in, quite creepy and it mostly always ends in snogging, but then does anyone feel kind of pressured into going all the way? and im not talking about just girls, boys as well!

also when we are tindering, do you think we should be putting it right in our little tinder bio “not just for sexy times”

ive put it in my tinder bio, also i can spot a…

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sex, love, commitment

A man can have sex with a lady and still don’t have any feelings for her, men only need space to have sex but women need reason to have sex.

A woman cannot have sex without feelings except sex works. A man can travel for eight hours ‘just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her. Sex makes men act as if they are in love while they are not. The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.

The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love.
Sex is not an act of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start…

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