Pull off the blindfold and really see the person for who they really are

Keywords: patterns , mental health , cancer , introspection , love , relationships

If you see someone through rose colored glasses, you will ultimately be confronted with all the issues you are ignoring, excusing, or rationalizing away. On the flip side, you may choose partners who feel safe, aka toxic because that is what you are used to, and ultimately sabotage a relationship with the very type of person you think you seek. Hopefully you will do neither of these things. But the likelihood is you will do both.


What is expected of us on a date?

advice , happy , health , help , love

A Brighter Cloud

So i’ve been tindering tonight, just chatting to some boyos. Then i got to thinking, thinking about the dates ive been on in the past.

So some boys can be lovely at the end of the night, nice goodnight kiss and walks me to the door.. but i have had other experiences where the boy expects to come in the house, or wants you to come back to his..

now this could be perfectly innocent, entering someones house youve never been in, quite creepy and it mostly always ends in snogging, but then does anyone feel kind of pressured into going all the way? and im not talking about just girls, boys as well!

also when we are tindering, do you think we should be putting it right in our little tinder bio “not just for sexy times”

ive put it in my tinder bio, also i can spot a…

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