I need to find out if my man can cook so let’s eat in bae

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What one partner might’ve liked might not be what your new partner likes. What you might like might not be what your partner likes either. You have to study their love language like you would study any other language. It’s also important to know your own so that you can express it to your partner. What are your love languages?


What Changed Your Mind?

love, language, meaning

Truths & Wonders

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Dear Daughters,

We all change our minds sometimes, because we’ve learned new facts or heard new arguments or come to frame a problem differently. But the most important mind-changers aren’t nuggets you’ll note in a TED talk or even lessons you’ll learn from a book. They’re experiences that change who you are–experiences that change not only what you understand but the you that does the understanding.

Take a topic about which philosophers, poets, and lay people alike have opined for centuries: love. Looking back over the last two decades, I’m aware that my understanding of love has changed significantly. But that change feels less like an intellectual development I’ve driven than a series of existential evolutions I’ve undergone.

Twenty years ago, I didn’t know what it meant to have children, and so could only imagine a sort of love that I now consider core to…

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