I even had to google “how to know if you’re in a toxic relationship” in order to come to this realization

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I still believe he’s not a bad person, and the toxicity of our relationship was more about incompatibility than anything else, but our relationship took a huge toll on me. 


You let me go slowly by not noticing me

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I was craving for you, for your touch, your love and you pushed me away and blame it on me. I know you had your interests, but don’t you think I should have been one of them?


There have been times when people tried to break up with me, and I’m like ‘We were dating?’

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There are too many damn people to choose from. Millennial dating is like an all you can eat buffet, you want to keep going back for more even though you should be content with what you have already eaten and remained satisfied.


He left you

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The best is yet to come

Come on wipe those tears you are strong.Don’t pull the trigger

Yes I understand he left you.He broke your heart.He dumped you when you least expect it, when You thought you two were so in love. You might have even thought of your future with him. But trust me when I say it will be okay.I know life can be so hard right now that you are hurt and broken.The pain can beat you down, it can spit in your face, it can do just about anything, and yet you can’t do a thing to prevent it.

We have to deal with pain to find happiness. We have to deal with pain to find us. We become stronger with each bad day, bad relationship, bad past, bad year,just everything bad. We can make it all better in the end just by learning from it all.You have to take that as…

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The Stages of Moving On After a Relationship

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Bringing Back Becca

You fought with everything in you to hold on to the relationship, to the point it nearly destroyed you. Our minds become easily blinded by the toxicity as our hearts continue to hold on to what we believe to be true love.

You created a fantasy with this person. A life you want went in pursuit of. But now that’s all gone. Imaging a life without this person seems unbearable despite all the pain they brought in your life.

Every sign was there. Standing right in front of you. But once again you try to see the “good” in everything and everyone. You justify the bad, letting yourself reject the pain and hurt you feel deep inside.

You know it’s not meant to be, but you put everything you have into that one person only to be hurt over and over. You know moving on is the best…

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