I want to tell him that I hate everything he did to me, but at the same time I think I love him

Keywords: have you ever , love , confessions , life , life lessons , question , questions

My god, I wanted to tell him I love him but I didn’t because what is the point?


This is where our quality and quantity time meet to connect to both of us

Keywords: Communication, Enjoy, Marriage

Trevor gets to feel loved by the intentionality of us spending time talking together, dreaming, and sharing and catching each other up on what has been going on without distractions. I get to feel loved by the quantity of time I am getting with Trevor because I get to share as much as I want or listen as much as I can on those walks, and then know we are going home where I can still spend time with him.


Is it ever acceptable to ghost someone?

discussion, ghost, ghosting, relationships, romantic, texting


This was a question I had been asking myself.

A few weeks ago, a friend and I had been discussing the appropriate ways to end things with someone you’d been seeing briefly. There were many factors to consider: how long you’d known each other, how many dates you’d been on, the timeframe that the number of dates took place, whether you met on an app or met through friends, and, of course, if things had gotten physical.

All of these culminated to one overall point: how much of an explanation do you feel you owe this person?

I for one thought that when you’re date or two in, it was perfectly reasonable to just never speak again if you feel things are not progressing/there’s no chemistry/whatever. However, after a certain amount of time, I felt a conversation would be necessary for appropriate closure. I couldn’t pin down a time frame…

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