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Falling in love with an idea, rather than reality — Why?

New Media Works relationships May 19, 2021 1 Minute

Keywords: as if insta , alive , art , healing , love , real

Is it because I’m scared of real connection? Too afraid to let go of my persona in exchange for vulnerability.
https://jadonswanproductions.art.blog/2021/02/12/prototyping-love-inside-your-head

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