The Project

adventures, blog, how to be single, life of a single girl, project, single

Yen Cantiga

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The first question that comes to mind is why the hell did I start this project? The only answer on top of my head is this:

One night in June, I was texting with a friend when I had an epiphany. “I should start a blog about my single life! It’s the first time in 8 years that I have been truly single so I wanted to document the experience.

My friend said back then, “What if you become not single in the next few months?” I struggled with the answer. Yeah, what if I found a very nice man during the course of the next few months? So I shelved the project and went about my merry way.

True enough, I found a decent guy who became my boyfriend for a few months. Good thing I didn’t start the blog back then, huh? However, after a few blissful months…

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Talking about love at 19

cheating, life, love, relationships, single, travel

I’ve never experienced being in love because I don’t want to lose myself. And that’s a statement. I am young, I have fire in me, I want to achieve things and the way I’m saying it might seem self centred or selfish but the truth is I’m okay with being alone, I’m at peace.

There is so much pressure for people to be in relationships, to be with someone, and some people, because of that, can’t for the life of them be alone. They are lost and they do not who they are because they have always been with someone else.

We should learn to be alone with ourselves before we get into a relationship. Being alone is okay -don’t shame people for being alone and don’t feel bad for being single. Enjoy life the way you want – whether that’s doing what excites you, learning new things, being friends…

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He left you

breakup , love , misunderstood , relationship

The best is yet to come

Come on wipe those tears you are strong.Don’t pull the trigger

Yes I understand he left you.He broke your heart.He dumped you when you least expect it, when You thought you two were so in love. You might have even thought of your future with him. But trust me when I say it will be okay.I know life can be so hard right now that you are hurt and broken.The pain can beat you down, it can spit in your face, it can do just about anything, and yet you can’t do a thing to prevent it.

We have to deal with pain to find happiness. We have to deal with pain to find us. We become stronger with each bad day, bad relationship, bad past, bad year,just everything bad. We can make it all better in the end just by learning from it all.You have to take that as…

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