A really valuable part of this journey was the discovery that I have often sought the wrong type of companionship

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I’m very much of the anxious preoccupied attachment persuasion and love the idea of a partner so I cling on to them for fear that they will leave, even if I’m not actually that devoted to them


My Bumble for Friends Story

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So, as I’ve previously mentioned, I took a big leap in 2018 and moved from Leeds to Nottingham alone. I knew no one here, started a new job in a relatively small company and started from scratch. I did this because I was in a dark place, I was unhappy and I was lonely. I wanted another chance to start again and improve my life and Leeds just wasn’t the place to do that. Nottingham won on my search for a new home so I took the leap and moved.

This doesn’t sound so bad when it’s put like that, positive even. I’ve had a lot of compliments from friends about how brave I was to take this leap and looking back in it… yeah I was! But something I forgot to ask myself when I first moved was how do you make friends as an adult?

All my life…

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