I have a good relationship with each one of my exes

Keywords: relationship

I still don’t get what the fuss about exes is. It seems that the idea of them being familiar is what gets people. Some people say they never have feelings for any ex. Once it’s done, it’s done. I am one of those people. I spent my day with a great guy by all standards and he still couldn’t elicit an emotional or sexual response from me. But hey, there really isn’t anything wrong in getting back with an ex if your heart can handle it. All you have to do is treat the relationship as a new one and let go of the past.

https://candidvibez.wordpress.com/2021/01/07/ex-or-next

There are some reason why the intimacy fades and little by little it creates a thinking to have a break or to find yourself in the middle of the chaos

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Stay. Even if everything is not working the way you want. Because love is not just a mere feeling but it is a decision to make. To choose the person you love despite of their flaws and differences, and to fight for the love that you think you both deserve.

https://thinkergi.wordpress.com/2020/10/30/will-you-still-stay-when-the-spark-is-gone

Allow yourself to be vulnerable and lovable

Keywords: love , patterns , relationships , dating , introspection

You focus on loving yourself, because without self-love, you cannot love another human. And you need to understand someone else does not complete you. As a person who would love a long term partner yesterday, I know this future partner cannot save me, fix me, or 100% fulfill me as there are too many wants and needs in my lifetime to be the responsibility of one person. That does not mean I need multiple partners. It means I am trying to apply healthy expectations of what I look for in a partner. I do not want a lust based relationship. And that has nothing to do with the sexual desire and intimacy that comes from physical attraction, mental attraction, intimate connection, what have you. I want love that is founded on something more than my mind and body telling me I have chemistry because I am pulled towards another toxic relationship.

https://mindfulafmama.wordpress.com/2020/09/15/catching-fucking-feels

Relationships are so built up by society, but throwing everything you have into a relationship leaves you with nothing

Keywords: all , relationships , travel , self love

Doing this can manifest in several ways:

  • You stop participating in your favorite hobbies
  • You’ll begin to change parts of your personality in an attempt to be more attractive to your partner
  • You stop going out with your friends if they’re not mutual friends 
  • You’re not working towards your goals as they have been replaced by goals your partner has set. 

https://eyliza.com/how-to-find-yourself-again-after-losing-yourself-in-a-relationship