Category: relationships

Some people are beautiful before you actually get to know them, while others become more beautiful after you get to know them

I feel many youths often mistake crushes and infatuation with love. It’s easy to see how the two are mistaken for love because the feelings are so intense, but there is a difference. A big difference in fact. Infatuation is defined as an intense but short lived passion or admiration for someone or something. Love is patient, love is understanding, and love is forgiving. Love desires a deep connection, while infatuation craves physical interactions.If you have a strong crush on someone – It is Infatuation. But , It is interesting to note that, Most of the time , Infatuation is always the pre-stage of love and It is not love.

https://talktosteev.wordpress.com/2020/04/21/do-i-have-a-crush-or-love

I need to find out if my man can cook so let’s eat in bae

Keywords: Personal

What one partner might’ve liked might not be what your new partner likes. What you might like might not be what your partner likes either. You have to study their love language like you would study any other language. It’s also important to know your own so that you can express it to your partner. What are your love languages?

https://fatimaaliefendic.wordpress.com/2020/04/17/love-language

A soulmate doesn’t have to mean forever — you might have multiple “ones” in your life and that is perfectly fine

Keywords: casual dating

Yes, you will move on and there will be many men you will connect with. Sometimes, it really is about the universe choosing a person for you for a moment in time. Some men are there for a reason or a season, as they say. I don’t think you should abandon the idea of true chemistry. Yes it’s real. Don’t think you missed your chance or that you’ll never find another man better than him. You will. I have to tell myself the same thing a lot. It actually drove me to do casual dating and to be more careful with my heart. This might be your journey as well. Remember that dating is about you and your needs, not theirs. Loving yourself is the most important thing. It could be a great lesson or even make you see how unimportant it is to date. It’s very liberating to not put a huge emphasis on pleasing a man and to only make YOU happy.

https://mostlycasual.com/2020/04/02/the-truth-about-the-one

Lonely

Nikki's avatarSexual Innuendo

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Have you ever felt so lonely, you just didn’t even know if you could make it out of bed? That even masturbation lost its appeal? That you just wanted to curl up in a ball and cease to exist? I sure have.  Loneliness has been a continuous theme throughout my life. Even as a child, I felt isolated a lot of the time. It has always ebbed and flowed though, and I think it always will. It can be a companion at times, that even if you have no one, you always have your own misery and self-pity. It is a slippery slope to further mental health downfalls, which lets depression, harm and extreme doubt sneak into your life. I have actively been trying to avoid negativity in my life, and don’t want to fall into those dark patterns. How can one stay positive amongst all the negative though?

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