The Project

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yencantiga's avatarCheeky Chatters

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The first question that comes to mind is why the hell did I start this project? The only answer on top of my head is this:

One night in June, I was texting with a friend when I had an epiphany. “I should start a blog about my single life! It’s the first time in 8 years that I have been truly single so I wanted to document the experience.

My friend said back then, “What if you become not single in the next few months?” I struggled with the answer. Yeah, what if I found a very nice man during the course of the next few months? So I shelved the project and went about my merry way.

True enough, I found a decent guy who became my boyfriend for a few months. Good thing I didn’t start the blog back then, huh? However, after a few blissful months…

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When You’re Waiting For Love

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Inna's avatarSaved By Grace

You, the one reading this, are you single? How long have you been waiting around for love to come your way? You may have had guys/girls in your life before, but they’re gone now. You’ve been alone for awhile now and you’re just waiting. Waiting for love to come to your life again, the waiting seems to drag on forever.

Waiting for love is like waiting for a pot of water to start boil, a watched pot boils for what seems like an eternity. When you feel yourself getting tired of waiting, just take it day by day. One day at a time. You’ll see yourself slowly start to turn your attention elsewhere, start living instead of waiting.

I’ve been told more times that I would like to admit that the one for me will be the exact opposite of what I expected. I’ve come to expect this AND that…

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Talking about love at 19

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I’ve never experienced being in love because I don’t want to lose myself. And that’s a statement. I am young, I have fire in me, I want to achieve things and the way I’m saying it might seem self centred or selfish but the truth is I’m okay with being alone, I’m at peace.

There is so much pressure for people to be in relationships, to be with someone, and some people, because of that, can’t for the life of them be alone. They are lost and they do not who they are because they have always been with someone else.

We should learn to be alone with ourselves before we get into a relationship. Being alone is okay -don’t shame people for being alone and don’t feel bad for being single. Enjoy life the way you want – whether that’s doing what excites you, learning new things, being friends…

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Dating and hookups in college: what they’re actually like (from a female’s perspective)

As a student at a women’s college, I know my experience is probably different from the average college student’s. That’s why I asked college girls from around the country to weigh in on what dating and hookups are like at their schools. Here are their responses.

Dating and hookups in college: what they’re actually like

When Someone gaze at you ardently

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Noah Jemilu's avatarHome of Love and Relationship Ideas

When Someone gaze at you ardently, Tilt and smile diffidently it is sure an ecstatic moments for us, Consensual behaviours are usually involuntary or reflex. It not easy admitting ones love feelings to the other; I myself is in the same shoe presently.

‘I hate to Love and Loose’
but if you don’t tell that person how you feel about them soon you’ll be buying yourself a Ticket to the friend zone forever Read Crush and Attraction,

Things that Hold us Back

1. Fear of Approach

2. Fear of Rejection

We may be so close or not that we don’t have the, permit me to use the word effrontery, telling this person about our feelings because we imagine it might hurt, off or they turn us down. And this the part we are so insecure about Loosing the Friendship.

When you think awkwardly about yourself you are also sending signals…

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