Category: relationships

He left you

breakup , love , misunderstood , relationship

ashyamosman's avatarThe best is yet to come

Come on wipe those tears you are strong.Don’t pull the trigger

Yes I understand he left you.He broke your heart.He dumped you when you least expect it, when You thought you two were so in love. You might have even thought of your future with him. But trust me when I say it will be okay.I know life can be so hard right now that you are hurt and broken.The pain can beat you down, it can spit in your face, it can do just about anything, and yet you can’t do a thing to prevent it.

We have to deal with pain to find happiness. We have to deal with pain to find us. We become stronger with each bad day, bad relationship, bad past, bad year,just everything bad. We can make it all better in the end just by learning from it all.You have to take that as…

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The death of commitment

commitment, relationships

thejoyfulsingle's avatarThe Joyful Single

Recently when browsing my Instagram stories, I came across an interesting response to a very basic question. A very successful entrepreneur that I follow was asked by one of her followers why she refers to her significant other as her son’s father as opposed to another title like boyfriend or hubby. Her response was something to the effect of, “I’m too old to call him my boyfriend. Partners doesn’t feel right. We’re together and we do what works for us.” She shares a home with and is raising a child with this man but seems very reluctant to publicly say that they are in a committed relationship . [Side note: I don’t know this woman personally and the info that I have is based solely on what she decides to share. I am basing this post solely on what I’ve seen from her social media, which may not truly reflect…

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The Stages of Moving On After a Relationship

anger, break-ups, denial, Happiness, hope, life, Life Journey, moving on, personal growth, relationships, self acceptance, Self-Discovery

Becca T. Cannizzaro's avatarBringing Back Becca

You fought with everything in you to hold on to the relationship, to the point it nearly destroyed you. Our minds become easily blinded by the toxicity as our hearts continue to hold on to what we believe to be true love.

You created a fantasy with this person. A life you want went in pursuit of. But now that’s all gone. Imaging a life without this person seems unbearable despite all the pain they brought in your life.

Every sign was there. Standing right in front of you. But once again you try to see the “good” in everything and everyone. You justify the bad, letting yourself reject the pain and hurt you feel deep inside.

You know it’s not meant to be, but you put everything you have into that one person only to be hurt over and over. You know moving on is the best…

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Let It Go

Breakup, Emotional-Health, LettingGo, Love, Personal, Relationships

queennkwain's avatar

One major self-love strategy is the ability to identify and remove toxic relationships from our lives in order to protect our peace.

No, the title of this is not a reference to the Disney Channel movie, Frozen. However, just like in the movie when Princess Anna discovered that although Prince Hans seemed like a good guy, he was actually very toxic for her, she had to let him go. (By force since he tried to kill her but that’s beside the point.)

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Even though self-love sounds like it only has to do with us that is not completely the case. The ways in which we love and see ourselves are very much affected by those we surround ourselves with and those we connect ourselves to. When consistently interacting with people who bring negativity into our lives, it tends to influence the way we see ourselves and ultimately has the…

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