I feel many youths often mistake crushes and infatuation with love. It’s easy to see how the two are mistaken for love because the feelings are so intense, but there is a difference. A big difference in fact. Infatuation is defined as an intense but short lived passion or admiration for someone or something. Love is patient, love is understanding, and love is forgiving. Love desires a deep connection, while infatuation craves physical interactions.If you have a strong crush on someone – It is Infatuation. But , It is interesting to note that, Most of the time , Infatuation is always the pre-stage of love and It is not love.
Have you ever felt so lonely, you just didn’t even know if you could make it out of bed? That even masturbation lost its appeal? That you just wanted to curl up in a ball and cease to exist? I sure have. Loneliness has been a continuous theme throughout my life. Even as a child, I felt isolated a lot of the time. It has always ebbed and flowed though, and I think it always will. It can be a companion at times, that even if you have no one, you always have your own misery and self-pity. It is a slippery slope to further mental health downfalls, which lets depression, harm and extreme doubt sneak into your life. I have actively been trying to avoid negativity in my life, and don’t want to fall into those dark patterns. How can one stay positive amongst all the negative though?
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Blog, check, dates, Dating, Dinner, dutch, going, Life, Money, splitting, Wallet
So recently, I was sent a suggestion for a new article. That suggestion was; “What does your (my) generation think about “going dutch” on a date?” And when I read that, I INSTANTLY knew that I would need to make an article about it.
For those who don’t know what “going dutch” means; it’s basically when two people split a check down the middle. One person pays half, and the other pays half; even steven. Some may say that it’s a fair way for two people in a relationship to save money, while others may believe that the guy should be paying for their meals.
Let me put it to you this way; ladies, guys wouldn’t mind if we split a few checks here and there. And guys, you shouldn’t feel “unmasculine” about it. You should feel appreciative that the girl wants you to have a few extra bucks in…
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affection , attraction , body language , crush , dating , love , intimacy , relationship
When Someone gaze at you ardently, Tilt and smile diffidently it is sure an ecstatic moments for us, Consensual behaviours are usually involuntary or reflex. It not easy admitting ones love feelings to the other; I myself is in the same shoe presently.
‘I hate to Love and Loose’
but if you don’t tell that person how you feel about them soon you’ll be buying yourself a Ticket to the friend zone forever Read Crush and Attraction,
Things that Hold us Back
1. Fear of Approach
2. Fear of Rejection
We may be so close or not that we don’t have the, permit me to use the word effrontery, telling this person about our feelings because we imagine it might hurt, off or they turn us down. And this the part we are so insecure about Loosing the Friendship.
When you think awkwardly about yourself you are also sending signals…
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breakup , love , misunderstood , relationship
Come on wipe those tears you are strong.Don’t pull the trigger
Yes I understand he left you.He broke your heart.He dumped you when you least expect it, when You thought you two were so in love. You might have even thought of your future with him. But trust me when I say it will be okay.I know life can be so hard right now that you are hurt and broken.The pain can beat you down, it can spit in your face, it can do just about anything, and yet you can’t do a thing to prevent it.
We have to deal with pain to find happiness. We have to deal with pain to find us. We become stronger with each bad day, bad relationship, bad past, bad year,just everything bad. We can make it all better in the end just by learning from it all.You have to take that as…
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