Tag: love

Allow yourself to be vulnerable and lovable

Keywords: love , patterns , relationships , dating , introspection

You focus on loving yourself, because without self-love, you cannot love another human. And you need to understand someone else does not complete you. As a person who would love a long term partner yesterday, I know this future partner cannot save me, fix me, or 100% fulfill me as there are too many wants and needs in my lifetime to be the responsibility of one person. That does not mean I need multiple partners. It means I am trying to apply healthy expectations of what I look for in a partner. I do not want a lust based relationship. And that has nothing to do with the sexual desire and intimacy that comes from physical attraction, mental attraction, intimate connection, what have you. I want love that is founded on something more than my mind and body telling me I have chemistry because I am pulled towards another toxic relationship.

https://mindfulafmama.wordpress.com/2020/09/15/catching-fucking-feels

Not trying to control others to be what I want and not letting others try to be what I want so I love them

Keywords: Relating and Sexuality, Authenticity, Discomfort, Inner Guidance, Intuition, Mental Health

And this includes, most importantly includes SELF HONESTY. To know when I don’t resonate abd stop having sex with that person out of neediness.

https://themagicalandthemundane.home.blog/2020/07/23/allowing-others-sexual-freedom

You let me go slowly by not noticing me

Keywords: breakup, faith, inspiration, life, lifestyle, love, motivation, relationships, Religion, travel

I was craving for you, for your touch, your love and you pushed me away and blame it on me. I know you had your interests, but don’t you think I should have been one of them?

https://kikych.wordpress.com/2020/06/13/just-another-happily-never-after

Some people are beautiful before you actually get to know them, while others become more beautiful after you get to know them

I feel many youths often mistake crushes and infatuation with love. It’s easy to see how the two are mistaken for love because the feelings are so intense, but there is a difference. A big difference in fact. Infatuation is defined as an intense but short lived passion or admiration for someone or something. Love is patient, love is understanding, and love is forgiving. Love desires a deep connection, while infatuation craves physical interactions.If you have a strong crush on someone – It is Infatuation. But , It is interesting to note that, Most of the time , Infatuation is always the pre-stage of love and It is not love.

https://talktosteev.wordpress.com/2020/04/21/do-i-have-a-crush-or-love

A soulmate doesn’t have to mean forever — you might have multiple “ones” in your life and that is perfectly fine

Keywords: casual dating

Yes, you will move on and there will be many men you will connect with. Sometimes, it really is about the universe choosing a person for you for a moment in time. Some men are there for a reason or a season, as they say. I don’t think you should abandon the idea of true chemistry. Yes it’s real. Don’t think you missed your chance or that you’ll never find another man better than him. You will. I have to tell myself the same thing a lot. It actually drove me to do casual dating and to be more careful with my heart. This might be your journey as well. Remember that dating is about you and your needs, not theirs. Loving yourself is the most important thing. It could be a great lesson or even make you see how unimportant it is to date. It’s very liberating to not put a huge emphasis on pleasing a man and to only make YOU happy.

https://mostlycasual.com/2020/04/02/the-truth-about-the-one